Monday, July 20, 2009

Health is more important than anything in this world, i want to recover soon as soon as possible. Want to go back to school as if i miss out one day, it would be difficult for me to catch up with the rest. Therefore, i want to recover fast and go back to school!!!! =)

I really wonder why couple keep fighting over small things. Is it worth the energy? Do couple quarrel to understand each other better? If it does then it is a good way of expressing themselves and get to know each other better. If they quarrel and broke up, then is it worth the effort? If they could give in to each other then everything would be solved right? In a relationship, we should give and take. Of course if a couple is happy together, then nothing will break them up. At least not that easily. A couple should also share their feelings and memories together. Happy, sad, angry, jealous etc, everything is a past of a couple but we should endure all this problems together. LOVE!!! Who actually know the true meaning of this four letters? To me, L - Learning, O - Observe, V- Verify, E - Express. We must Learn to give in to the other party and be there when they need us. We must also Learn to adapt to our partners personality as they are different than us and we cannot expect them to change for us. We must Observe other couples in how they treat their partners and treat our partners the same ways as well. We must also Observe our partners carefully whether are they unhappy etc. Verify, what do i mean by that, it is easy for us to believe what others says about our partners and we tend to get angry with our stead without Verifying what our friends says are true anot. By doing so, it just shows how little trust we have in our partners. It will make them sad as we rather trust what others says rather than believing in them. So, we should sit down and think carefully what others says is the truth a not and Verify with our partners in a careful and caring way and not just scold them based on what people says. Lastly, of course we should Express our feelings to our couples but do not express unhappiness too much as it will sour your relationship with your partners. The ways we Express ourselves is also very crucial to our relationship as we should not show our partner in an unhappy way throughout the relationship together. In fact, we should Express ourselves in a way that it won't hurts the other half.

In a relationship, no matter what happens, we should stay by our partners side and company them overcome their problems. Although couple argue, but they should not break up over small things. =) JY!